Friday, 8 April 2016


So I am the biggest lurker over at Kaya's blog.
Ridiculous, I know.
But for some reason I never really got out of lurker mode with her

There is so much of what she writes that I love.

Like this post.

"As in, he doesn’t get to expect me to behave like a slave while he treats me like a vanilla wife. And he doesn’t get to expect me to treat him like a master when he behaves like a vanilla husband."

^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fuck. Yes. That.^^^^^^^^^^^^^

But...oh, I am sure there are several 'buts' here.

Sunday, 3 April 2016

For Reference

Everything Lil just said over here. 

Its hard to imagine, from where we are now to living it. But the being is still there. And there are moments where the gap does close.

I need him to want.
And for him to say what he wants and do what he wants and for him to want me to do what he wants. And maybe that's what I mean by needing action...I don't need some pacifying gestures. I need his doing.
And his control.

And all that other stuff.